Dia Tres

Beginning Thoughts: Yesterday was much easier than the first day. God was just so faithful in helping me. I am so thankful for that. This is a verse I have been trying to meditate on:

Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, only such a word as is good for edification, according to the need of the moment. Ephesians 4:29

It is not only about not saying negative things - it is also about only saying positive things. I found myself yesterday making "in between" comments. Comments that weren't necessarily negative, but that weren't edifying either. I shall work on that.

It's amazing how a change in me sparks a change in hubby also. Yesterday he apologized for speaking negatively to me (remember, he knows nothing of this challenge). I was so taken aback - I had no idea where that came from - but it was cool to see that.

He also has taken the compliments very well - really being so thankful for each encouragement. It's great! Thank God for what He is doing!

On to day 3!

Day 3:

"...love suffers long, and is kind..." 1 Cor. 13:4
"And my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ
Jesus." Phil. 4:19
Love indeed suffers long and is kind. As you consider your Encouragement Challenge,
determine today that you will not say anything negative to or about your husband.
Speak kindly to him with words of genuine encouragement.
If your husband is considerate of your needs, let him know that you have noticed. Thank
him for his kindness and consideration. Thank the Lord that your husband knows how to
be both tough and tender.
Sometimes it's difficult for a man to be gentle, kind or tender - especially if he hasn't had
role models in these areas. If he's not a considerate person, appeal to him for help
without complaining. Let him know that it's hard for you to handle some things alone.
Then, when he moves in to help, don't insist that he do it your way. Be glad that he is
responding, and express your gratitude.
Ultimately, you can't expect your husband to make you feel more secure, loved, etc.
Remember that only God can meet the deepest needs of your heart.

Ways Sean is considerate: He is always there for me when I am upset. If I ever am having trouble sleeping he always offers to go to the couch and sleep there so I can fall asleep more easily. He will make dinner when I'm tired or just of his own initiative. He is always willing to help out with household things. (Along with many others). In general - he's the best!